Healthy Congregation Team
Why have a Healthy Congregation Team at Saltwater Church?
At Saltwater Church, we recognize that occasional conflict is natural in any organization and that the difference between healthy and unhealthy organizations is not whether conflict is present, but how it is addressed. We want to address conflict in a healthy manner, and the Healthy Congregation Team helps us to this.
More specifically, the Healthy Congregation Team has three purposes:
To promote healthy communication practices within the congregation.
To consult with any member of the congregation regarding how to deal with any situation that has the potential for conflict.
To help resolve conflict between members of the congregation.
When should I contact the Healthy Congregation Team?
If you are ever upset about something or with somebody else at Saltwater Church – – another church member, a staff member, or even the minister! – – the best thing to do is usually to speak directly and personally to the relevant person.
However, many of us are sometimes hesitant to do this because we don’t know how to do so without creating a conflict or escalating an already existing conflict. Instead, we often either keep our thoughts and feelings to ourselves – – which makes sure they never get resolved – – or complain to somebody not directly involved in the situation – – which also makes sure they never get resolved.
This is the ideal time to contact the Healthy Congregation Team.
Who is on the Healthy Congregation Team?
Current Healthy Congregation Team Members include Aaron Lund, and Bob Dickinson.
How can I contact the Healthy Congregation Team?
You can contact any member individually, or contact firstname.lastname@example.org
What are “healthy communication practices?”
Here are 10 recommendations for healthy communication practices within our congregation:
- Recognize that conflict is natural in any organization and that the difference between healthy and unhealthy organizations is not whether conflict is present but how it is addressed.
- Take responsibility for communicating your own thoughts and feelings regarding any issue about which you are concerned.
- Assume others are acting out of the best of intentions until proven otherwise.
- Don’t triangulate or gossip.
- Also think thrice about using email to communicate regarding any issue about which you or anyone else may have strong feelings.
- Instead, speak directly and personally to the relevant individual or individuals regarding any issue about which you are concerned. Speak from your own experience. Use “I” statements.
- If you are uncomfortable about speaking to any individual directly, seek the help of the Healthy Congregation Team.
- Avoid allowing yourself to be triangulated by others. Don’t speak on behalf of others. Encourage others to speak directly and personally to the relevant individual or individuals regarding any issue about which they may be concerned or to seek the help of the Healthy Congregation team.
- If somebody speaks to you about an issue concerning you, practice active listening.
- To the best of your ability, practice apology, forgiveness, and reconciliation.
Does the congregation also have a “Covenant of Right Relations?”
Yes, the “Covenant of Right Relations” was adopted by the congregation in 2008.
Sunday Morning Hospitality
The team facilitates the hospitality time immediately following our Sunday Morning worship. They set-up coffee and tea, along with light refreshments for guests and members to enjoy.
This team is responsible for facilitating new members joining the church, coordinating the recruitment of church volunteers, and nurturing the development of church leaders. The members of this team communicate and coordinate activities with Petal Leads, the Nominating Team and the Welcoming Team, as well as with Church Staff.
Meeting Time: (variable)
This team’s primarily responsibility is for Nominating Board Members. Team Members serve a two-year commitment
This team is responsible for helping the congregation become better known in the wider community, Look for us at Farmer’s Markets, Pride Celebrations and other events.